White Dresses - Mary Pflum Peterson

White Dresses

By Mary Pflum Peterson

  • Release Date: 2015-09-15
  • Genre: Biographies & Memoirs
Score: 4.5
4.5
From 52 Ratings

Description

In this riveting, poignant memoir of  three generations of women and the white dresses that adorned them—television producer Mary Pflum Peterson recounts a journey through loss and redemption, and her battle to rescue her mother, a former nun, from compulsive hoarding.

As a successful television journalist at Good Morning America, Mary Pflum is known as a polished and highly organized producer. It’s a persona at odds with her tortured childhood, where she watched her emotionally vulnerable mother fill their house with teetering piles of assorted “treasures.” But one thing has always united mother and daughter—their love of white dresses. From the dress worn by Mary’s mother when she became a nun and married Jesus, to the wedding gown she donned years later, to the special nightshirts she gifted Mary after the birth of her children, to graduation dresses and christening gowns, these white dresses embodied hope and new beginnings.

After her mother’s sudden death in 2010, Mary digs deep to understand the events that led to Anne’s unraveling. At twenty-one, Anne entered a convent, committed to a life of prayer and helping others. But lengthy periods of enforced fasting, isolation from her beloved students, and constant humiliation eventually drove her to flee the convent almost a decade later. Hoping to find new purpose as a wife and mother, Anne instead married an abusive, closeted gay man—their eventual divorce another sign of her failure.

Anne retreats into chaos. By the time Mary is ten, their house is cluttered with broken appliances and stacks of unopened mail. Anne promises but fails to clean up for Mary’s high school graduation party, where Mary is being honored as her school’s valedictorian, causing her perfectionist daughter’s fear and shame to grow in tandem with the heaps upon heaps of junk. In spite of everything, their bond endures. Through the white dresses, pivotal events in their lives are celebrated, even as Mary tries in vain to save Anne from herself. 

Unflinchingly honest, insightful, and compelling, White Dresses is a beautiful, powerful story—and a reminder of the unbreakable bonds between mothers and daughters. 

Reviews

  • White Dresses

    5
    By Glitter Grammy
    A good read. White Dresses. I finished reading the book last night. I bought the book because the author grew up in my home town, Beaver Dam Wisconsin. I continued reading the book because it was a story of family, the good, the bad and the ugly. Yet through all love prevailed. I laughed, I cried and I learned.
  • Excellent reading

    5
    By Sculpey5
    One of the best books I've read in a long time. She gives insight into hoarding and the true complicated mental health issues that are part of its makeup.
  • White Dresses

    5
    By Lea's Mãe
    I loved this book. It was written with such humanity and love that I was enthralled while reading it and had to dry my tears from time to time. I was captivated for all of its 600 plus pages. I would recommend it highly.